Male in Female led Marriage

Implementing Long Term Male Chastity EnforcementMoving From Play To The Real Thing
Chastity Perkins
May 31, 2018

If male chastity is new to you and your partner or never went beyond 48 hours be advised; it’s a process. It’s unlikely that you’ll start male chastity and it will be a done deal. You know buy a device you think is the right size and fit, put it on, have your wife decide when (more like if) to unlock you. The first step is to start a routine EVERY DAY for four hours. Not here and there, not a day a week but every single day, even if nobody is in the mood for it. How long should you continue this routine? Let’s say at the very least a few days but a week is fine. There are two goals here. The first is o stop the presence of the chastity device from arousing the male CONSTANTLY. The other part is actually finding the right device and more importantly the right size which will be far smaller than the one you think is “too tight”. It’s best to choose a male chastity device that you think is the right size and then also get two sizes smaller in the various parts available. The reality is that there’s really not a ton of choice here for steel devices that actually work. The main option is length (short is good actually buy one way shorter than you think you should as well) the other critical size is the “base ring” buy that in the size you think is right and also the next two smaller sizes. Sure go ahead start with the one that’s easy to get on. There’s a good chance it will eventually fall off even without trying. Go smaller, go a lot smaller, then go even smaller.

The problem here is going to be erections and stimulation. Even the slightest hint of a chubby or hours after a partial erection the a male penis is about 50 times larger than zero erection. In fact there’s a good chance it’s larger than the smallest it’s ever been. That’s the size you need… quite literally something that’s as small as your husband/partner’s smallest penis size ever. The coldest day, the longest it’s gone without an erection, the phase of the moon. Oh and you need it to be a hair smaller than that. If your partner just cannot help but getting a partial erection, figure out a way to wear him out so it’s absolutely flaccid. I won’t be explicit here do whatever works.

After a period of every day for four hours jump it up to 8 hours or a bit longer. This is a big deal at this point. It should also be every day. The reason this is a big jump is typically this absolutely will cover a work day. A real routine day where the device is on in public during normal work and out and about routines. Remember this building up is EVERY DAY with no breaks. Again the goal is reducing constant that chastity device awareness. After a week or so of this routine it’s not only dulling that awareness but also conditioning the body to not constantly fight the chastity device. During this period there’s a good chance that you’ll need to use a smaller device, smaller ring, smaller. Not sure? Go smaller. Go as small as can possibly be MADE to fit as long as nothing is turning colors.

The next big step is overnight. Every moment of a whole day. What about that next day? If the overnight didn’t go well keep him locked but go back to the 8 hour routine but extend it until he actually goes to bed. The next morning make it a whole 24 hour day again. If this goes more than three or four “bad nights” while it’s on jump it up to 48 hours. In my case the sleep thing solved itself. Okay so you made it two days, now what? Keep going for a week. After the week is over try a smaller device. I am serious. Also have him try to get out of it. Not in some lame halfhearted way but really try in every way you can imagine to pull out.

Don’t take any of the above as absolutes. They are certainly not but take them as guideline to what to expect. The important take away is that you cannot get the sizing right without some sort of conditioning and it will take a bit to make the chastity device not be the center of your male partner’s thoughts. Also do not kid yourself with these